“This One That You Like Me, You’ll Pay for Some of What I Bought” Man Shares Unexpected Encounter at Festac Mall

A man’s social media post has sparked widespread debate after he shared an unusual encounter with a lady at Festac Mall in Lagos. The story, posted on X, quickly gained attention, prompting Nigerians to weigh in on dating expectations, money, and modern social interactions.

In the viral post, a man identified as Prince Adewale recounted how he approached a lady he found attractive at the shopping centre. He wrote:

“I met a lady at Festac Mall recently. She was very beautiful, so I approached her and complimented her. She smiled and said, ‘This one that you like me, you’ll pay for some of what I bought o.’”

Confused by the response, Adewale said he replied instantly in Yoruba, though he did not elaborate further.

The post immediately drew a mix of reactions online. Some users criticised the woman’s response, describing it as opportunistic, while others reacted with humour or shared personal anecdotes.

Omo Ogun criticised the lady’s response, writing:

“Nigerian ladies with beggy beggy attitude. Look at how she ruined the conversation between the two of you. Very horrible human being.”

Muanya took a more sarcastic view of the situation:

“You have to pay tax to her for complimenting her. Next time you won’t admire another person.”

Others praised Adewale’s reaction while commenting on what they described as opportunistic behaviour among some individuals. Paribus wrote:

“Good response. Everything about them is billing. They are walking opportunists.”

Simsbury shared a similar experience, noting how common such situations can be:

“It’s always the case. You say hello, boom, the next conversation that pops up is her problems.”

The post also sparked broader reflections on dating culture in Nigeria. Deelord compared experiences at home and abroad, highlighting differences in social norms and expectations. He said:

“Meeting a decent and responsible woman does not require money. In most cases, it has little or nothing to do with money at all. It is about your ability to communicate effectively, carry yourself with confidence, and conduct yourself properly.”

He added that personal hygiene and social conduct are often taken more seriously in developed countries and suggested that adopting such standards could help young Nigerians improve their dating experiences and interpersonal relationships.

Other users, like Man_Friyo, ended the discussion with humour, connecting similar responses to hidden expectations and social norms among some women.